Pardon my Humor here, [I am a mischievious alanoner!] My now sober spouse of 9 months thought I 'HAD' to say 'goodbye' to him, before I came to town. (hello, like does he ever say 'bye' to me when he scrambles to town for coffeeshop?) Anyway, I smile, grinned, and " Saluted!" He just smiled back. : ) [I guess they still have to try, oh I don't know why!] Feels good to have a backbone again.

ROFL......There are times when my A thinks he is in charge, he is still a practicing A.....then he will look at me and say teasingly..."I'm in charge" I always slowly nod my head no and then ask if he has socks on.....LOL he will say yeah.....then I will tell him that he was in charge of that......we always chuckle about who is charge.... Hugs Mary