I must have posted "Are they really having fun "out there" before I was fully awake.  I really was not asking a question.  I was trying to get others to see that the addicts and alcoholics are NOT having fun.  I apologize if my post was not clear.

Powerless, That's okay. No harm done. It opened up a discussion. How bad can that be? Who knows? Someone new to this may actually have needed to ask that question. Now they have some feedback. Live strong, Karilynn