Somedays are just great.

I told my A last night I was wrong to question why she did not want to go her meetings.

It made me feel great.

I know my HP has plans for me and my A.

I am back on track in making me happy.

Sometimes it is tough realize that maybe your spouse isn't suppose to be with you.

What is going to be is going to be.

Atleast I will enjoy the ride.

  

 

Hello tullemars,

What a great way to look at things and a great attitude. It sure helps to pass it on :) Way to communicate with your wife too. cdb :)

Great growth!

 

You sound very happy - way to go

I too am dealing with the issue of not being with my spouse....I spent about 15 minutes a few nights ago just sobbing, I think it was my acceptance of my HP plans.  I have been building a good support system.  I don't hide anything from anybody anymore.  If my A doesn't come home I talk about it with other people.  If he's being a jerk, I no longer cover it up.  This is who he is.

Hugs Mary

Way to go! I have such a hard time letting go. Thanks for sharing your good day with us. It's encouraging to see your growth.