this is my first time to be envolved with a chat family group. i need as much help as possible.

Hi Diane and welcome to MIP and alanon

 

Yes, us wives of alcoholics need alot of help.

Alanon is a lifesaver for me.

Here are the 3 C's we didn't cause it, we cannot cure it and we cannot control it

 

Keep coming back and reading the posts

You will hear your story and alanon can help you cope with the chaos in your life

If you are the wife of an alcoholic, this is the place for you to be. Read through the old posts, I am sure you will find something there that you can relate to. We have all been where you are, and have found some hope and serenity by practicing alanon principles This is what you would hear if you were to go to a face to face meeting - We who live, or have lived, with the problem of alcoholism understand as perhaps few others can. We, too, were lonely and frustrated but in Al-Anon we discover that no situation is really hopeless and that it is possible for us to find contentment and even happiness whether the alcoholic is still drinking or not... We urge you to try our program. It has helped many of us find solutions that lead to serenity. So much depends on our own attitudes and as we learn to place our problem in its true perspective we find it loses its power to dominate our thoughts and our lives... The family situation is bound to improve as we apply the Al-Anon ideas. Without such spiritual help living with an alcoholic is too much for most of us. Our thinking becomes distorted by trying to force solutions, and we become irritable and unreasonable without knowing it. The Al-Anon program is based on the suggested Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, which we try, little by little, one day at a time, to apply to our lives along with our slogans and the Serenity Prayer. The loving interchange of help among members and daily reading of Al-Anon literature thus make us ready to receive the priceless gift of serenity. Al-Anon is an anonymous fellowship. Everything that is said here, in the group meeting and member-to-member, must be held in confidence. Only in this way can we feel free to say what is on our minds and in our hearts, for this is how we help one another in Al-Anon.

Mon. July 25

Dear Diane,

I too am fairly new here and have found hope & inspiration on this board & chat room.  My A has been on a real bender this past week and this is where I find my strenght, hope & serenity.

Glad you found us, keep coming back & keep posting.

God Bless

Yours in Recovery

Kathy570