Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. "A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses." The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate - for the good and the bad.
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. As you grow, your associates will change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want you to stay where they are. Friends that don't help you climb will want you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream. Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease you. Consider this:
· Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
· Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.
· Don't follow anyone who's not going anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest it.
· Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life.
· Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships.
Lanchas said
May 31, 2005
Great post.
Lanchas
jj said
Jun 1, 2005
Thanks for sharing.
This morning while I sipped my coffee and watched the hawks soar through the sky and flet the serenity, it truely made for a serene day. What you say is so true!!!
JJ
nycbt said
Jun 1, 2005
I need to hear that. I have this friend that I have known for about 16 yrs but he is not a postive person and I am trying to work on my life and he is not really doing well. I have tried to talk to him alittle less then I normally have. I really am not telling him my problems because he isn't really helping me.
Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. If you
run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But, if you associate with
eagles, you will learn how to soar to great heights. "A mirror reflects a
man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he
chooses." The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those
with whom you closely associate - for the good and the bad.
The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve.
Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity.
An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with
negative
thinking and negative acting people. As you grow, your associates will
change. Some of your friends will not want you to go on. They will want
you to stay where they are. Friends that don't help you climb will want
you to crawl. Your friends will stretch your vision or choke your dream.
Those that don't increase you will eventually decrease you. Consider this:
· Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
· Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing
to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always
first to tell you how. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life.
You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas
with the wrong person.
· Don't follow anyone who's not going anywhere. With some people you
spend an evening: with others you invest it.
· Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of
life.
· Wise is the person who fortifies his life with the right friendships.
Great post.
Lanchas
Thanks for sharing.
This morning while I sipped my coffee and watched the hawks soar through the sky and flet the serenity, it truely made for a serene day. What you say is so true!!!
JJ
I need to hear that. I have this friend that I have known for about 16 yrs but he is not a postive person and I am trying to work on my life and he is not really doing well. I have tried to talk to him alittle less then I normally have. I really am not telling him my problems because he isn't really helping me.
Becky