I finally made a decision.  Many of you may recall that i was having a difficult time deciding whether or not I want my husband to move out.  After much talking and watching him make efforts to change, I have decided that I am not ready to throw away our marriage.  I love him.  I have set boundaries that I hope I can stick to.  I feel as if a burden has been lifted off my shoulders and feel as if I made a decision based on what I wanted and not what other people expected.  I feel very good today, but we both know that we both have much work to do.

Powerless,

I'm glad you are feeling better. It is your life and your decision, and it is great that you thought of it that way as you made your decision.

Stick to your boundaries and rmember to keep taking care of you. Keep coming here for support and working your program. It can be your lifeline.

I hope things work out or both of you.

                                   Love Jeannie